Travel

Our Family Chicago Staycation

Friday, August 30, 2019



Sometimes things don't work out how you plan or want. This is life. And sometimes, if you get out of the way and let go of your plans, life will surprise you with the best gifts.

Originally our last vacation of the summer was supposed to be to San Diego. But due to scheduling conflicts, we had to cancel that trip. And while I was a little sad, okay maybe a lot sad, I was pleasantly surprised by how much fun we had on our Chicago staycation. And now we have a new family tradition - a Chicago staycation before going back to school. It's not just a stay-cation, it's a Chi-cation!

As the saying goes, “In Life, It’s Not Where You Go, It’s Who You Travel With” – Charles Schulz. And let's be honest, Chicago in the summer is just the best city ever. Here are a few highlights from our family's Chicago Staycation.

Motherhood

Finding Purpose in Being Present

Thursday, August 01, 2019



So, I quit my job. I wrestled with the decision for a long time, but eventually I realized that my heart was no longer in it. I had lost my passion for work and in its place were constant feelings of guilt and anxiety. Busyness and worry ruled my life.

Natural Living

Easy Steps to Living More Sustainably

Thursday, April 25, 2019




The climate is changing and so must we. Every spring Mother Earth generously showers us with hope, whether we deserve it or not (and you know we definitely don't deserve it). Hope in the form of gorgeous flowers and glorious sunshine to warm our skin and souls. But if there is to be any hope for our earth, we have to do our part. So, if you're like me and are looking for ways to live a more sustainable lifestyle, I've listed a bunch of easy steps we can take to help the planet:

Travel

Five Days in Berlin

Thursday, February 28, 2019



There are few pleasures in my life that I treasure more than the opportunity to travel. I love exploring new places and learning about different cultures. Travel teaches us so much and my latest voyage abroad was no different.

I was recently in Berlin for five days with friends. One of my best friends moved there with her family and two of my other best friends were in Europe for work. So clearly, the only logical thing for me to do was to travel to Germany and join them. I will always say yes to travel adventures.

Motherhood

The Manic & Magic of Motherhood

Friday, February 08, 2019




Let her sleep, for when she wakes, she will move mountains - or cause her Mother to lose her mind - either way, let her sleep.

Being a mom is the greatest thing I have ever done. It is also the hardest. Much harder than I anticipated. How two little children can be, and rule, my world all at the same time astonishes me.

I don’t think we share enough about the trenches of parenthood. At least I know that I don't. I worry about what people will think. But the truth is that I find parenting extremely challenging at times. I've lost my temper much too quickly and have screamed at my children when they didn't listen. I've sat crying on the floor just trying to get two little feet into two little shoes. I’ve wanted to bang my head against the wall after my child gets out of bed for the zillonth time. Parenting is hard.

So Life

New Year, Old Feeling

Thursday, January 17, 2019



Happy New Year! Yes, we're well into January already, but hey, life. I also haven't had time to post something on here in over six months. Again, life. But New Year, new beginning, right?

Every year I choose a word, or more accurately a word chooses me, to aspire to and guide my steps. But as we begin 2019, it suddenly dawned on me that this is the year I turn 35. It feels like a big milestone. I don't feel old necessarily, but I don't feel very young anymore either. I have had two children. Both birthing and raising them has made me tired in ways I could not have imagined.

Travel

Lost in London: Part II

Thursday, August 09, 2018

"One's destination is never a place, but always a new way of seeing things." - Henry Miller

"How many days will you be in London?" asks the customs official.

"Four," I tell him.

"And then where are you off to next?"

"Back home."

"You're only here for four days?" he asks in surprise. He looks at my passport again. Apparently flying to London for a four day getaway is not normal. "Well, have a nice visit," he says, stamping and then handing me back my passport. 

That will not be a problem. Whether it's for four days or forty, traveling to London is always a good idea.


Travel

Lost in London: Part I

Thursday, July 12, 2018


I recently discovered the unexpected joy of being lost. Last month, I traveled to London to meet my husband, who was in Europe on work, for a short but very sweet mini-vacation. With little time to plan or book anything, this trip was more about experience than activity. And I discovered that when in doubt about what to do or where to go when traveling, sometimes it's best to just wander.

So Life

Christ's Unlimited Tolerance

Friday, June 22, 2018


Imagine if Jesus had a zero tolerance policy. We would all be screwed. Yet he never turns his back on us. He always welcomes us, with open arms. And in return, Jesus does not call us to judge, he calls us to love. To love your neighbor as yourself.

Motherhood

Thank you, Dads

Saturday, June 16, 2018



Thank you, dads.

Thank you for teaching your children how to open doors,
not just for a lady, but for anyone who needs a hand.

Thank you for letting your feelings show, 
with a kiss, bear hug and tears, no matter who's around.

Thank you for exemplifying partnership in all you do,
from laundry, dishes and cooking, to mopping up the floors.

Thank you for carrying heavy loads,
long nights and endless meetings, to toddlers climbing on your back.

Thank you for telling stories,
tales to entertain at bed, and tales to encourage and share lessons learned.

Thank you for loving well,
in the hard times and the good; when it's easy and it's not.

Thank you for living by example,
in not just what you say, but what you do. 

Thank you for being here. For the soccer games, ballet recitals, family dinner nights, s'mores by the campfire, dance parties, bike rides, story time and backyard baby pools. And for the scraped knees, boo boo kisses, thrown peas, exploding diapers, sleepless nights, broken bikes, sibling fights, and temper tantrums, too. 

Thank you for it all. We love you more than you know.

So Life

Be the Helpers

Thursday, June 07, 2018



I don’t write as much as I would like to these days. A lot has changed in my life over the past year and a half, and while it’s full in the best of ways, it is also very busy.

I’ve also stepped back from writing because of the change in our country over the past year and half. You may have noticed that public discourse on social platforms has not been the most courteous as of late. To be honest, it’s just plain discouraging and I haven’t really wanted to be a part of it. After the election last year, I was depressed. I was in shock. I was angry. I don’t think I could have expressed myself well, most certainly not civilly or kindly. So I was quiet. Silent.

But silence doesn't change anything. And in some cases, I think it can actually hurt.

So Life

Happiness in Between

Thursday, May 24, 2018


“Folks are usually about as happy as they make their minds up to be.” - Abraham Lincoln

So it's been a while. I originally started this blog for the simple reason that I love to write. Over the past two years, life just hasn't been simple. I stopped writing for the love of writing. Not because I didn't want to write, I just didn't seem to have the time to write what I wanted to write. Because I have been writing. I write for work; I write in journals to my kids, documenting their too quickly changing lives; I write grocery lists, weekend chore lists and to do lists for everything under the sun so I don't forget things, which I do now - all. the. time. 

So Life

Love Trumps Hate

Friday, March 18, 2016



I can't quite bring myself to believe that Donald Trump is the leading Republican Presidential candidate. How did we get here? I literally do not know a single person who would support him, but apparently they exist, and in large numbers. And maybe this disbelief, or willful ignorance on my part, is in fact how we as a country have come to this point. 

What is scariest to me about Donald Trump winning the nomination is not that he could become President (I really, really, really can't even go there). No, what is scariest to me is what his popularity says about our country as a whole. He is an angry, rude and self-centered person. He looks out for himself and has no qualms about bullying others in his way. What does this say about us?
“We don’t see things the way they are. We see them the way we are” – Talmud

So Life

Isn't That Something

Friday, February 05, 2016


Isn't it something how sometimes the only constant in life is change? Do you ever wish that life had a pause button? Life is going too fast for me these days (Hello, it's March! I haven't posted anything to this blog in a month! How did that happen? I'll tell you how - life...) and it feels like things are changing all around me. For someone who likes control (who, me?) change can be hard. But I am trying to focus less on what I can't control and work more on changing myself - the one thing I can control.  

Recipes

Beat the Winter Blues Blueberry Pancakes

Friday, January 29, 2016


January. Is it just me, or does it sometimes feel like it will last foreverrrr?! Coming down from the holiday high, with the end of winter still too far for comfort, and sunlight a distant memory, who can blame us for wanting to stay in bed all day? My solution - beat the winter blues with blueberry pancakes. 

Travel

The Best Gift I Received This Christmas

Friday, January 08, 2016



You may (said optimistically) or may not (more realistically) have noticed that it has been a while since I posted anything on the blog. There are several draft posts sitting in blogger purgatory that I started but did not have the time nor energy to post. 

One was related to making crafty Christmas gifts, what was I thinking? Another was related to Christmas cooking, who was I kidding? And another was on being more present throughout the holiday season, which I eventually decided to do rather than just write about. Hence, it is now mid-January of 2016 and I am finally posting something. I thought I would feel bad about not blogging for a while, but in reality, I feel relieved. Relieved and relaxed.

So Life

The Real Meaning of Thanksgiving

Friday, November 20, 2015

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Thanksgiving as​ defined by​ the Merriam-Webster Dictionary:​ 1) the act of giving thanks 2) a prayer expressing gratitude 3) a public acknowledgment or celebration of divine goodness.

​Thanksgiving as defined by American consumerism: the holiday lost somewhere in between the one with all of the candy and the one with all of the toys. ​As my mailbox fills with catalogs and store aisles fill with decorations, I can't help but wonder why it seems so easy to focus on the things we don't yet have but want, than what we already have and should be thankful for?

So Life

Isn't That Something

Friday, November 06, 2015




This week's Isn't That Something post is brought to you by my wandering mind. I don't know about you, but sometimes my creative tank just feels drained and I need something to kindle my imagination. I believe that anything can inspire - a song, story, image, even a beautiful new handbag - so here is a compilation of random, yet interesting tidbits that I hope inspire or maybe just intrigue you...

Home Sweet Chicago

Change is in the Air and It's a Good Thing

Friday, October 23, 2015

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Lately I have noticed myself worrying a lot. And if I'm honest, what I worry about most right now is how fast life is moving and that my baby girl is almost two - two! She is changing every day and every day seems to go faster than the next. And there is absolutely nothing I can do to slow it down.  

As I was walking down the street the other day, I was suddenly struck by the awesome beauty of the changing trees around me. It dawned on me then, change can be scary, but it can also be incredibly beautiful. 

So, this weekend, I am embracing the inevitable force of change in life and the joy it can bring. From apple picking to carving pumpkins ​and jumping in leaves, fall is a season for fun. And it's the most fun when making memories with my inquisitive and joyful toddler. Luckily, there are so many ways to celebrate fall ​here in Chicago and I hope you'll embrace this season of change by getting out and exploring some of these fun (and free!) fests:

So Life

Stuff Happens, And It's Time To Do Something About It

Friday, October 09, 2015



I have a hard time watching the news. With one click I am instantly made aware of all of the horrible things that have occurred in the past 24 hours. ​ Turning on the TV sometimes just makes me want to cry. Because after I became pregnant, the world became an immensely scarier place to me. It has the capability to bring harm to this innocent little person who never asked to be brought into this world. Her father and I made the decision for her. And because of that we owe her a better world than the one that is depicted on the news every day.

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